It really shouldn’t though.
More often than it should be, I have gents asking me what went wrong in their dating pursuits. They walk me through their processes and approaches, their “lines”, their outfits, and what have you. Of course, anyone can embellish a story to make it seem like they did no wrong, so with a few of them, I actually follow them “into the wild”...
One of the main reasons I wrote my first project “They Don’t Want You To Win” was because there’s a terrible lack of understanding between men and women. One feels they’re owed everything and another feels they don’t have to work much. These qualities are interchangeable amongst the sexes and you have both sides trying to give their form of...
Something that I’ve learned over the years is that a lot of women become more free-spirited when they’re older. There is a new vigor of directness and lessened room for being coy or playing emotional games. Younger women yearn for this freedom, but insist on keeping to what the “traditional” perception of what society says they should interact as. A lot of this comes...
This ‘movement’, if you will, started from a plus-sized model named Tess Ryann, known as professionally as Tess Munster. It started as a means of loving one’s self as is and that beauty shouldn’t be defined by size or shape. This is a beautiful message and a genuine psychology that all should hold, and I would never talk down on it.
However, whether it was on her part...
There you are. You’re hanging out in the bar and you’ve been seeing a multitude of different women dancing and drinking the night away. You could have been great with these women and you could have bombed with others. All that you see is that in this area, it’s a sea of people in this music-filled, liquor-laden party…..
*record scratches*
Lights go on, music stops, and...
When I wrote this book, one of the most common ideologies about dating was that it’s hard. Too hard even. A friend of mine who contributed a great deal to this book mentioned today that she was inundated with that very sentiment all throughout the afternoon. I honestly used to feel the same way, but then I realized that it’s because I was working HARDER, instead of SMARTER....
The PUA scene (Pick Up Artist) has always been a fascinating one to watch. While I don’t discredit it at all, I try to instill in the people I talk to that pick-up lines aren’t always the route to go by. More and more women become curious as to what the male populace thinks of them, and so they go and read the materials that are tailored to men. What I teach isn’t the notion...
I’m not sure if you all have seen this by now, but there was a video created for a non-profit ironically called ‘HollaBack!’, starring a Ms. Shoshana B. Roberts. The premise of said video is that Ms. Roberts walked through the streets of New York City for nearly 10 hours and was said to be harassed nearly the entire time. Upon watching this video, while there were some forms...