When I wrote this book, one of the most common ideologies about dating was that it’s hard. Too hard even. A friend of mine who contributed a great deal to this book mentioned today that she was inundated with that very sentiment all throughout the afternoon. I honestly used to feel the same way, but then I realized that it’s because I was working HARDER, instead of SMARTER. One of the things that has to be understood from the get-go is that there will almost always be more men than women when it comes to the dating pool. Due to this, women will be more picky and selective with who they engage themselves with. Sometimes, the reasons are plausible (safety, health, security), and sometimes, they are for BS reasons altogether like vanity or pride.

Instead of working harder, instead, work smarter and master your environment. Master your pursuit, or else, you will simply end up another casualty! In the book, you’ll learn how to make your pursuit work for you, instead of working towards the pursuit. Dating can be difficult for a lot of people, but pick up “They Don’t Want You To Win (But I Do)” today and learn how to become the exception to the rule!