Happy holidays to all! Make sure you guys (and gals) stay safe out this holiday. Have fun, but have fun responsibly!
Now, an occurrence I’ve seen too many guys fall victim, especially when approaching women they just met: trying to spend money on her IN THE HOPES of trying to convince her to be with you. C’MON SON!!!!
You’re definitely doing it wrong. Say you saw an attractive woman you liked. The first things out of your mouth shouldn’t be you trying to take her to a restaurant or out for a drink, etc. You are trying to buy the pussy, and in the course of it, LOWERING YOUR VALUE! What you should do is build up rapport with her. Ask her about interests, common goals, and activities AND THEN, go for an instance where the two of you can commune together. If you ask a woman out without building rapport, and she agrees to it, but after the date, she doesn’t call you back or let you get to another stage of intimacy; you can’t be mad at her. You’d have to blame yourself!
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If you want to be the formers, go on about your day. You’re content. Complacent.
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The older you get, the more it will become more commonplace where instead of beer/straight up hard liquor, you will end up in situations with wine and members of the opposite sex. Not all women are hard drinkers and given safety concerns, they won’t always drink hard liquor in front of you. Wine, on the other hand, is a crowd favorite with women of all ages and eight out of ten times, she’ll use that as the sensual icebreaker/truthteller when dealing with you.
You guys need to learn your wines. I’m not saying that you need to memorize everything from your Riesling’s to your Sauvignon Blanc’s (though it helps), you should learn how to distinguish between the qualities of Red and White wines, and what foods go great with them. You may end up knowing more than she does on the matter and impressing her, leaving her with the curiosity of what else you may know about the world. Drink responsibly, of course.
When it comes to the pick-up line, you need to drop it. Like, right now. It never wins you points because once it’s said in one place, it gets spread like wildfire everywhere else (women will tell their girlfriends what was said and they’ll their friends and on and on…)
When it comes to your approach, just proceed with confidence, make sure your presentation is solid, and be natural. A pick up line will never magically sway you from being unlikeable/layable to very likeable/layable. If she liked you or didn’t like you, the line will have no sway in that. The day an overweight, acne-face filled gent living in his parent’s garage swoons a Victoria Secret model all on the merit of one cheesy pickup, will be the day I mail you a Canadian dollar and shoot myself in the head. Just be yourself, folks.
The PUA scene (Pick Up Artist) has always been a fascinating one to watch. While I don’t discredit it at all, I try to instill in the people I talk to that pick-up lines aren’t always the route to go by. More and more women become curious as to what the male populace thinks of them, and so they go and read the materials that are tailored to men. What I teach isn’t the notion of PUA, but instead understanding how women think, so that you excel with them REGARDLESS of what you say (hopefully, you aren’t talking horseshit). No matter how smooth the line, if you aren’t a guy that the woman is interested in, it won’t work for you. If you are a guy that understands her, she will be drawn to you much more.
There are protocols and procedures that are taught to you everywhere in life, and a lot of new ones stated in in my book. However, there will be instances where you have to bend the rules a bit. My personal stance on it is that if you must break any of the rules, the person you’re doing it for must return on your “investment” in doing so. If you break your rules and the person you’re pursuing doesn’t reciprocate, then you should bid them adieu and keep it moving.